This was a fascinating read. I haven't read Berne (but obviously need to). I have not figured out what games I play. I have finally figured out (I think) how to do all the ritual niceties to give out the 'strokes' that people I interact with need/want, but I don't really socialize outside of my family. I guess that means we have all figured out (unconsciously) what our roles are and we support each other in our roles. I look forward to your next post.